If you’ve been reading my blog or following me on social media for any length of time, you’ll know that cooking is a big part of my life and one of my greatest passions. Last year, I shared a post called How We Eat and explained the principles I follow when feeding my brood.

Although I love preparing dishes from scratch, even I find it challenging at times. Life is hectic and busy and feeding a family of four every day can feel like a chore.

However, because it means a lot to me that we eat well, over the years I’ve figured out a few ways to make those meals happen without losing my sanity in the process.

Whether you’re cooking for one or feeding hoards of people on a daily basis, adopting some of these methods should make the whole thing a lot less stressful.

  • Plan Your Meals

In my experience, staring blankly into your kitchen cupboards, searching for a spark of culinary inspiration at the end of a long, tiring day, rarely leads to a satisfying and healthy home cooked meal. Spontaneity’s great, but I don’t always have the energy to think on my feet.

There are a million ways to meal plan and I’m not certain I’ve hit upon the best method just yet, but deciding what we’re going to eat ahead of time definitely makes my life easier, so I plan a menu once a week before our big online shop. To keep things interesting in the kitchen and ensure a varied diet, I always opt for a mix of old favourites and a few recipes I haven’t tried before.

  • Keep It Simple

Harried midweek chefs should never attempt elaborate, complicated recipes with lengthy ingredient lists. Instead, opt for simple dishes that can be thrown together with very little effort. I like things than can be flung in the oven or cooked quickly on the stove, so tray bakes, one-pot pasta dishes, quick casseroles and curry always feature heavily in my meal plans.

  • Choose Your Key Ingredients Carefully

When time is short and you’re rushing to put food on the table, it makes sense to choose ingredients that by their very nature can be cooked quickly. For this reason, fish appears regularly on my menu along with veg that takes mere minutes to cook and salads that can be thrown together in the time it takes to lay the table.

Cutting proteins and root vegetables into smaller pieces will also help reduce cooking time. For example, thinly sliced chicken breast will cook in just a few minutes, while a thick, uncut piece takes much, much longer.

  • Make Your Store Cupboard Work For You

A well stocked store cupboard is essential if you want to make cooking from scratch a regular occurrence. There are plenty of lists online to guide you, but Jamie Oliver’s basic store cupboard list for families is probably the closest to what I keep on hand at home.

As well as the basics, there are a handful of ingredients that help me create masses of flavour without having to break a sweat. Infused oils, tinned anchovies, Marigold Vegetable Bouillon Powder, Marmite and the fresh herbs I grow in our yarden are all things I never want to be without.

  • Take Advantage of ‘Good’ Convenience Foods

While I can’t remember the last time I ate a ready meal and I rarely reach for jars of ready-made sauce, I’m not against taking the odd shortcut when it comes to cooking. I’ve been known to buy pre-prepared veg, I love ready rolled pastry and I recently fell for Tilda’s new Pulses and Rice range {see my serving suggestion here}.

Far from being ‘bad’ processed foods, there are lots of products and ingredients designed with convenience in mind that actually make cooking from scratch every day more feasible than ever before. However, they’re not always cheap and you do need to be savvy about checking labels. Here’s a useful guide to help you avoid hidden fat, sugar and salt.

  • Let Kitchen Gadgets Do Some of the Grunt Work

For all its many shortcomings, Jamie’s 30-Minute-Meals* did make me rethink the way I prepare certain ingredients when I’m in a hurry. Chopping, slicing and grating with my Magimix wherever possible has been a game-changer. The Braun Multiquick Hand Blender {as seen in my recipe for Homemade Thai Green Curry Paste and Super Simple Sweet Potato Soup} also receives a lot of love.

A good slow cooker is another gadget that makes it easy to have a home cooked meal on the table at the end of the day. I relied on mine heavily throughout university, but especially during my MA when I was arriving home after 6pm with two very hungry children. They can be purchased fairly cheaply and my go-to slow cooker recipe book* also happens to be a bargain.

  • Double-Up and Embrace Batch Cooking

Life always feels a little easier when I’ve managed to do some batch cooking to fill my freezer. Ensuring I have a good supply of healthy, home cooked meals ready and waiting to be thawed and reheated has definitely been a lifesaver on more than one occasion, especially when Mr L.A. is travelling and I’m parenting on my own.

Whether you set aside time on a Sunday afternoon to prepare your own ‘ready meals’ for the week ahead or simply make extra throughout the week and freeze as you go, it’s always good to have food you can fall back on. If you need a little inspiration, I often refer to Sarah’s posts about batch cooking here and here.

  • Try Dump Cooking

Another option if you’re keen to get ahead, dump cooking simply means you dump a mix of protein, veg and marinade in a food bag before popping it in the freezer. Then, when you’re ready to eat, you dump that mix into a pan and let it cook. Pinterest is awash with ideas and I found this post by A Cultivated Nest particularly helpful.

  • Never Let Leftovers Go to Waste

When I’m creating my weekly meal plan, I always account for left-overs and try to make sure dishes flow from one day to the next. For example, extra rice cooked to accompany a curry on Monday can be used in a stir-fry on Tuesday and vegetables roasted in bulk on Wednesday can be added to salads at lunch on Thursday and Friday.

Many of Nigella’s books provide suggestions for using up leftovers within the recipes themselves and I’ve also heard very good things about Hugh Fearnley-Whittingstall’s River Cottage Love Your Leftovers*.

  • Accept That Sometimes You Just Need to Order a Takeaway

I love cooking, but even I get sick of it sometimes! If you find yourself too tired to cook, don’t beat yourself up. Enjoy your takeaway, relax and figure out what tomorrow’s delicious home cooked meal might be.

  • Do you have any time-saving hints and tips to add? Be sure to let me know if you follow any of the advice above. Happy cooking!

Love Audrey xxx

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May in photos 🤳

1. Finally, some Franky weather. One of the best things about this month has been dusting off my summer dresses and being able to wear sandals ☀️

2+3. Coronation weekend. So many thoughts 💭 But the food was good! I made a vegan version of my mum’s famous coronation chicken and it was delicious.

4. Jesse staying upbeat during yet another trip to hospital. That steroid buzz though. IYKYK.

5. Some of the food served at the first meeting of Bristol Cook Book Club since 2020. It felt so good to get this going again. I can’t wait for our next feast!

6. Me among the cow parsley, snapped by Jesse.

7. I’ve been thinking about creativity a lot this month while working through the ‘The Artist’s Way’. 

8. Breakfast outside.

9. {Still} scrapbooking December. Fingers crossed I can finally wrap up this project in June 🤞🏻

10. Izzy’s final show at The Tobacco Factory. After tonight, she’ll be done with college {and compulsory education} forever 🤯

We packed a lot into this month. Enough to fill two carousels! This might explain why I’m so tired! I’m looking forward to June though. Everything’s better when the sun shines ✨
@_charlieswift has been raving about ‘The Artist’s Way’ by Julia Cameron for years. I finally caved, ordered the book and agreed to work through the course with her and some other artists. 

The book focuses on ‘guiding you through the process of recovering your creative self’ to ‘help you unleash your inner artist’. It’s early days {I’ve only read as far as week two and I haven’t even started my morning pages yet - IYKYK}, but I’m enjoying the process so far. 

Today I took myself on my first Artist Date - ‘a block of time… especially set aside and committed to nurturing your creative consciousness, your inner artist’. I decided to treat myself to a solo cinema trip to see ‘Are You There God? It’s Me, Margaret.’ The film was brilliant and taking time out midweek to do something just for me felt… kind of naughty? And fun! It definitely filled my creative well {again, IYKYK}.

Have you read ‘The Artist’s Way?’ Where would you go on a date with your inner artist?!
Franky weather ☀️🌅🔆🌻✨

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April in photos 🤳

1. Our trip to London over Easter was a definite highlight this month. Here’s the obligatory ‘flowers outside Liberty’ shot.

2. Finally! Some sunshine! More of the same please, Mr. Weatherman ☀️

3. Dressed for a day of sightseeing in my new favourite pink jacket. It’s Boden and I bought it in the sale 💖

4 + 5. Scenes from a trip to the big Waterstones in Piccadilly. This poem by @charlycox1 floored me. Crying in a bookshop. Not awkward at all.

6. I was proud of these steps, so I’m posting them here for posterity 🚶🏼‍♀️🥄

7. The Easter holidays also featured lots of lazy days 🎮😴

8. We bought a nutribullet and I’m officially in my smoothie era.

9 + 10. Dinner and drinks at @thecoconuttreeuk with our IzzyBee. Taking your daughter out for cocktails is a season of parenting I’m very much enjoying.

Not pictured: a family funeral and the chest infection I’m still getting over 🤒 How was April for you?
Easter weekend in my hometown 💃🏼

No trip to London is long enough for me to see all the people and do all the things I want to do while I’m there, but we always manage to pack a lot in. It’s 17 years since I moved away, but somehow it still feels like coming home. Here’s some of what we got up to…

1. Being tourists.

2. Shopping at Westfield.

3 + 4. Hanging out and eating at Southbank.

5. Refuelling in Chinatown.

6. Enjoying the big Waterstones in Piccadilly.

7. Admiring the spring flowers outside Liberty.

8. Visiting the Imperial War Museum for the first time since I was a child.

9 + 10. Seeing Elton John at the O2 with my mama 👓🎹🎤🪩✨

I hope you’ve managed to enjoy the long weekend, whatever you’ve been up to! That sunshine though!☀️🤩
March in Photos 🤳

1. How it’s going…

2. How it started.

3. My in-laws were involved in a terrible car crash earlier this month. They’re very, very lucky to be alive. It was a horrible time, so I’m grateful there was a happy ending.

4. My husband sent me this photo of a photo from our wedding day while he was visiting his parents. Turns out his mum carries it in her purse ❤️

5. While I was waiting for news from Derby, I took myself out on a walk and ended up in @thesmallcitybookshop. It was like my feet knew books would bring me comfort.

6 + 7. Just spring things.

8. Vegan lemon and almond loaf and a green smoothie from @theorchardcoffeeco 🍰🌱

9. I bought it 🌸

10. Other music? I don’t know her. 

How’s March been treating you? Personally, I’m ready for April and spring PROPER!
There is a past version of me who cannot believe I get to do this every day 💭📝💻

She’s around 12yrs old, working on her first novel in a little ring-bound notebook, dreaming up stories, devouring books and trying to imagine a life filled with words. Everything that makes my business possible now barely existed then, so even she’d struggle to conjure up  an image of what my life looks like now.

I’m grateful that I get to do this, for the clients who trust me to find the right words, and I’m grateful to that past version of me too. Without her, I wouldn’t be here now. Sure, she’d probably want me to hurry up and get back to that novel, but I think she’d be proud of the business I’ve built and the way I’ve managed to create a life filled with words.

What did you want to be when you grew up?
Lockdown memories, three years on 🦠⏳

Very little of my life made it on to the grid in 2020, so this is the first time I’ve shared these images. They’re all from the first lockdown and most were taken between March and May. I think the arrival of spring will always remind me of this strange time.

When Boris made his announcement on the 23rd, our children had already been out of school for a week. Jesse, who was initially deemed clinically vulnerable, spent the next 6m shielding. He left primary school one day not realising he’d never go back. He did not see another child his age until the summer. Like many kids and adults in the same situation, the experience had a deep impact on his mental health. 

Izzy was in Year 10. As the pandemic raged on, she did most of her GCSEs online, celebrated her 16th birthday via Netflix Party, finished secondary school with minimal fanfare and missed out on prom completely. When she finally had a normal night out with friends in the winter of 2021, I cried quietly in the kitchen when she got home. Seeing her so happy and animated after a simple ‘cheeky Nando’s’ only highlighted everything she’d missed out on in the previous 18 months.

It’s easy to forget how little we knew about the virus in the beginning and how frightening that was for everyone involved. We had it easy in comparison to some, but I still marvel at the way we coped with it all. The way we isolated, home schooled and kept our businesses ticking over. My goodness it was hard! As my children often joke, I hope we’re done living through major historical events for a while.