Izzy, complete with post-swimming lesson hair, licks a homemade ice-lolly.

Isabel broke up from school on Thursday of last week and, thankfully, the sun appeared right on cue over the weekend. We’ve been working on a big decorating project over the last few days, but we’ve still managed to squeeze in a few trips to the park, some time in the garden, ice cold drinks and summery food.

Although I’m apprehensive about juggling work and full time childcare for two little people over the next 6 weeks, I’m also incredibly excited about having the children at home with me. Jesse will be starting pre-school in September and I sense lots of change on the horizon, so I’m going to make the most of the relative simplicity my life has at the moment.

I was reminded recently that one of my main responsibilities as a parent is to fill my children’s lives with wonder. Of course, children can find wonder in most things if only they have someone to help them find it. There’s really no need to wow them with pyrotechnics or a big band on a daily basis {although, they’d love that too}. They will be amazed by mud in the garden, listen intently as you read a story, and enthralled by an opportunity to do something they’ve never done before.

With this in mind, and inspired by Emily Quinton of The Start-Up Wife, I sat down with Isabel and Jesse last week and compiled a list of things to do this summer. Here’s what they came up with…

1. Swimming Lessons – Izzy’s desperate to learn, and I’m ashamed to admit I’ve never signed her up for lessons. She finally started a two week intensive course yesterday morning. A 30 minute session in a small group, everyday, for ten days. I overflowed with pride as she strode off towards the pool, swimming cap pulled firmly over her sandy blond locks, ready to master the water.

2. Read – Jesse pines for the library almost constantly and Izzy is working her way through the Harry Potter series. We’re just going to go with it and see where books can take us this summer.

3. Make Ice-Lollies -We’ll do this repeatedly I’m sure, but our inaugural batch were made with vanilla yogurt and crushed peaches. I highly recommend.

4. Have a BBQ – We don’t have a big garden, and we don’t own anything Mr.LA can {legitimately} throw charcoal on. Our BBQs are generally conducted on something disposable perched precariously atop fallen bricks. I make a mean pasta salad though, and kebabs that sport halloumi and colourful veg are quite magical when you’re 3 and 7. Add a few treats like fizzy drink and ice cream for afters, and the children will be in heaven.

5. Visit the Beach – This was Jesse’s contribution to the discussion. One word. ‘Beach’. I’ll be only too happy to oblige.

6. Face Painting – I’m so glad Izzy suggested this one. At least I’m covered if it rains, even if I do have to endure having MY face painted as part of the fun.

7. Picnics – We had our first today in the park across the road. We used Jesse’s buggy to wheel a huge pot of freshly made pasta salad to a nice shady spot on the grass. The children hurriedly devoured mouthfuls of it in between rides on the swings and trips down the slide.

8. Bake Muffins – Muffins are currently the bake du jour according to my children. Izzy has grand plans for something involving nutella. Who am I stop her?

9. Make Tuna Satay – OK. I can appreciate this one seems a little random, but that’s what happens when you give kids carte blanche to pick and choose what they do. There’s a back story to this one. Izzy sampled some tuna satay in Bali 2 years ago. The experience was obviously so immense, that it has stayed lodged in her mind all this time. Anyway, I’ve found a recipe, and a trip to the local fishmonger might just turn out to be  an adventure.

10. Toast Marshmallows – I’m not sure why, or how, Izzy imagines we should do this, but I’m game if she is.

11. Get A New Bedroom – More on this one shortly. There are bunk beds readers, bunk beds! And a few treasures from Etsy…

If you feel like making your own summer list be sure to leave me a link below, or simply fill the comment section with your wildest dreams for how you’ll spend the next six weeks.

Loveaudrey xxx

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May in photos 🤳

1. Finally, some Franky weather. One of the best things about this month has been dusting off my summer dresses and being able to wear sandals ☀️

2+3. Coronation weekend. So many thoughts 💭 But the food was good! I made a vegan version of my mum’s famous coronation chicken and it was delicious.

4. Jesse staying upbeat during yet another trip to hospital. That steroid buzz though. IYKYK.

5. Some of the food served at the first meeting of Bristol Cook Book Club since 2020. It felt so good to get this going again. I can’t wait for our next feast!

6. Me among the cow parsley, snapped by Jesse.

7. I’ve been thinking about creativity a lot this month while working through the ‘The Artist’s Way’. 

8. Breakfast outside.

9. {Still} scrapbooking December. Fingers crossed I can finally wrap up this project in June 🤞🏻

10. Izzy’s final show at The Tobacco Factory. After tonight, she’ll be done with college {and compulsory education} forever 🤯

We packed a lot into this month. Enough to fill two carousels! This might explain why I’m so tired! I’m looking forward to June though. Everything’s better when the sun shines ✨
@_charlieswift has been raving about ‘The Artist’s Way’ by Julia Cameron for years. I finally caved, ordered the book and agreed to work through the course with her and some other artists. 

The book focuses on ‘guiding you through the process of recovering your creative self’ to ‘help you unleash your inner artist’. It’s early days {I’ve only read as far as week two and I haven’t even started my morning pages yet - IYKYK}, but I’m enjoying the process so far. 

Today I took myself on my first Artist Date - ‘a block of time… especially set aside and committed to nurturing your creative consciousness, your inner artist’. I decided to treat myself to a solo cinema trip to see ‘Are You There God? It’s Me, Margaret.’ The film was brilliant and taking time out midweek to do something just for me felt… kind of naughty? And fun! It definitely filled my creative well {again, IYKYK}.

Have you read ‘The Artist’s Way?’ Where would you go on a date with your inner artist?!
Franky weather ☀️🌅🔆🌻✨

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April in photos 🤳

1. Our trip to London over Easter was a definite highlight this month. Here’s the obligatory ‘flowers outside Liberty’ shot.

2. Finally! Some sunshine! More of the same please, Mr. Weatherman ☀️

3. Dressed for a day of sightseeing in my new favourite pink jacket. It’s Boden and I bought it in the sale 💖

4 + 5. Scenes from a trip to the big Waterstones in Piccadilly. This poem by @charlycox1 floored me. Crying in a bookshop. Not awkward at all.

6. I was proud of these steps, so I’m posting them here for posterity 🚶🏼‍♀️🥄

7. The Easter holidays also featured lots of lazy days 🎮😴

8. We bought a nutribullet and I’m officially in my smoothie era.

9 + 10. Dinner and drinks at @thecoconuttreeuk with our IzzyBee. Taking your daughter out for cocktails is a season of parenting I’m very much enjoying.

Not pictured: a family funeral and the chest infection I’m still getting over 🤒 How was April for you?
Easter weekend in my hometown 💃🏼

No trip to London is long enough for me to see all the people and do all the things I want to do while I’m there, but we always manage to pack a lot in. It’s 17 years since I moved away, but somehow it still feels like coming home. Here’s some of what we got up to…

1. Being tourists.

2. Shopping at Westfield.

3 + 4. Hanging out and eating at Southbank.

5. Refuelling in Chinatown.

6. Enjoying the big Waterstones in Piccadilly.

7. Admiring the spring flowers outside Liberty.

8. Visiting the Imperial War Museum for the first time since I was a child.

9 + 10. Seeing Elton John at the O2 with my mama 👓🎹🎤🪩✨

I hope you’ve managed to enjoy the long weekend, whatever you’ve been up to! That sunshine though!☀️🤩
March in Photos 🤳

1. How it’s going…

2. How it started.

3. My in-laws were involved in a terrible car crash earlier this month. They’re very, very lucky to be alive. It was a horrible time, so I’m grateful there was a happy ending.

4. My husband sent me this photo of a photo from our wedding day while he was visiting his parents. Turns out his mum carries it in her purse ❤️

5. While I was waiting for news from Derby, I took myself out on a walk and ended up in @thesmallcitybookshop. It was like my feet knew books would bring me comfort.

6 + 7. Just spring things.

8. Vegan lemon and almond loaf and a green smoothie from @theorchardcoffeeco 🍰🌱

9. I bought it 🌸

10. Other music? I don’t know her. 

How’s March been treating you? Personally, I’m ready for April and spring PROPER!
There is a past version of me who cannot believe I get to do this every day 💭📝💻

She’s around 12yrs old, working on her first novel in a little ring-bound notebook, dreaming up stories, devouring books and trying to imagine a life filled with words. Everything that makes my business possible now barely existed then, so even she’d struggle to conjure up  an image of what my life looks like now.

I’m grateful that I get to do this, for the clients who trust me to find the right words, and I’m grateful to that past version of me too. Without her, I wouldn’t be here now. Sure, she’d probably want me to hurry up and get back to that novel, but I think she’d be proud of the business I’ve built and the way I’ve managed to create a life filled with words.

What did you want to be when you grew up?
Lockdown memories, three years on 🦠⏳

Very little of my life made it on to the grid in 2020, so this is the first time I’ve shared these images. They’re all from the first lockdown and most were taken between March and May. I think the arrival of spring will always remind me of this strange time.

When Boris made his announcement on the 23rd, our children had already been out of school for a week. Jesse, who was initially deemed clinically vulnerable, spent the next 6m shielding. He left primary school one day not realising he’d never go back. He did not see another child his age until the summer. Like many kids and adults in the same situation, the experience had a deep impact on his mental health. 

Izzy was in Year 10. As the pandemic raged on, she did most of her GCSEs online, celebrated her 16th birthday via Netflix Party, finished secondary school with minimal fanfare and missed out on prom completely. When she finally had a normal night out with friends in the winter of 2021, I cried quietly in the kitchen when she got home. Seeing her so happy and animated after a simple ‘cheeky Nando’s’ only highlighted everything she’d missed out on in the previous 18 months.

It’s easy to forget how little we knew about the virus in the beginning and how frightening that was for everyone involved. We had it easy in comparison to some, but I still marvel at the way we coped with it all. The way we isolated, home schooled and kept our businesses ticking over. My goodness it was hard! As my children often joke, I hope we’re done living through major historical events for a while.