One of my favourite niche genres of content right now is Sunday reset routine reels on Instagram. I’ve always enjoyed learning about other people’s routines and rhythms and these {often heavily romanticised} mini-vlogs are addictive viewing. I don’t have the patience to artfully film and edit myself doing this stuff, but I’ll gladly write about it!

I’ve long used Sundays to gather my thoughts and prepare for the week ahead. You only need to flick through some of my old weekend posts to see we were ticking off certain tasks week in and week out when the children were little. Things have changed a lot since then, so here’s what our Sunday reset routine looks like now…

  • Laundry

I try to start the week with an empty laundry basket. I don’t always manage it, but setting the intention helps me get as close as possible. There’s usually a couple of loads to do on a Sunday and a few piles of clean laundry to put away. I also make sure Jesse’s school uniform is clean and ready for the following morning.

  • Diary Check-In

Carl and I always spend some time chatting about the week ahead. In this season of life, all four of us have different schedules so we need to make sure we’re on the same page and fully aware of what’s going on. Is Carl working away this week? What days will Izzy be in college? Is she working next weekend? Does she need picking up from rehearsals on Friday? How is Jesse getting to Taekwondo? I feel so much better when I’ve got everything straight in my head. These chats often generate a list of life admin too, so we know we need to make time for tasks like ordering prescriptions, booking appointments, paying for school trips etc.

  • Meal Plan / Grocery List / Online Shop

Checking our schedules also helps us meal plan for the week ahead. Once I know who I’m feeding and when, I’ll draw up a list of meals based on ingredients we already have. I add anything we don’t have to my grocery list and then do a quick sweep of the kitchen to see what needs restocking. I either book an online delivery slot or Carl heads in store a few days later. Either way, the big shop is always done or delivered on a Tuesday morning. A recent debate in my Instagram DMs suggests this is a controversial choice, but it works for us!

If I have a particularly busy week or a stretch of solo parenting coming up, I will also use Sunday morning for batch cooking. I might roast some veggies, make some hummus or prepare an easy salad for my lunches. Sometimes I’ll cook one of our evening meals in advance. I call it ‘being my future friend’! Anything to make life a little easier.

  • Bedroom & Bathroom Refresh

Our cleaning schedule {which I talked about on a recent episode of Friends With Business Benefits – How to Do Life and Run a Business} means weekends are usually housework free. However, we do tend to give our main bedroom and the upstairs bathroom a bit of a refresh on Sundays. Carl focuses on the bathroom and I pick up and put away the inevitable floordrobe that always seems to build up in our bedroom throughout the week.

  • Self-Care Sunday

Once we’ve got all the boring stuff out the way, my main priority on a Sunday is to rest and relax before the start of another busy week. We rarely make plans or venture far from home. I try to do something creative like letter writing or scrapbooking. Alternatively, we’ll stick a family movie on and curl up on the sofa with snacks. Sunday dinner is also part of our weekly rhythm. I don’t always cook a roast, but we try to eat a nice meal together and it’s the one day of the week we tend to have a ‘proper’ dessert.

My evening rhythm followed by an early night is always important, but never more so than on a Sunday. I hate waking up tired on a Monday morning!

  • So that’s our Sunday reset routine. It’s a lot of adulting. Sometimes I feel nostalgic for the true lazy Sundays of my youth. They were usually spent hungover in front of the Hollyoaks omnibus on T4…

Love Audrey xxx

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My Sunday Reset Routine
May in photos 🤳

1. Finally, some Franky weather. One of the best things about this month has been dusting off my summer dresses and being able to wear sandals ☀️

2+3. Coronation weekend. So many thoughts 💭 But the food was good! I made a vegan version of my mum’s famous coronation chicken and it was delicious.

4. Jesse staying upbeat during yet another trip to hospital. That steroid buzz though. IYKYK.

5. Some of the food served at the first meeting of Bristol Cook Book Club since 2020. It felt so good to get this going again. I can’t wait for our next feast!

6. Me among the cow parsley, snapped by Jesse.

7. I’ve been thinking about creativity a lot this month while working through the ‘The Artist’s Way’. 

8. Breakfast outside.

9. {Still} scrapbooking December. Fingers crossed I can finally wrap up this project in June 🤞🏻

10. Izzy’s final show at The Tobacco Factory. After tonight, she’ll be done with college {and compulsory education} forever 🤯

We packed a lot into this month. Enough to fill two carousels! This might explain why I’m so tired! I’m looking forward to June though. Everything’s better when the sun shines ✨
@_charlieswift has been raving about ‘The Artist’s Way’ by Julia Cameron for years. I finally caved, ordered the book and agreed to work through the course with her and some other artists. 

The book focuses on ‘guiding you through the process of recovering your creative self’ to ‘help you unleash your inner artist’. It’s early days {I’ve only read as far as week two and I haven’t even started my morning pages yet - IYKYK}, but I’m enjoying the process so far. 

Today I took myself on my first Artist Date - ‘a block of time… especially set aside and committed to nurturing your creative consciousness, your inner artist’. I decided to treat myself to a solo cinema trip to see ‘Are You There God? It’s Me, Margaret.’ The film was brilliant and taking time out midweek to do something just for me felt… kind of naughty? And fun! It definitely filled my creative well {again, IYKYK}.

Have you read ‘The Artist’s Way?’ Where would you go on a date with your inner artist?!
Franky weather ☀️🌅🔆🌻✨

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April in photos 🤳

1. Our trip to London over Easter was a definite highlight this month. Here’s the obligatory ‘flowers outside Liberty’ shot.

2. Finally! Some sunshine! More of the same please, Mr. Weatherman ☀️

3. Dressed for a day of sightseeing in my new favourite pink jacket. It’s Boden and I bought it in the sale 💖

4 + 5. Scenes from a trip to the big Waterstones in Piccadilly. This poem by @charlycox1 floored me. Crying in a bookshop. Not awkward at all.

6. I was proud of these steps, so I’m posting them here for posterity 🚶🏼‍♀️🥄

7. The Easter holidays also featured lots of lazy days 🎮😴

8. We bought a nutribullet and I’m officially in my smoothie era.

9 + 10. Dinner and drinks at @thecoconuttreeuk with our IzzyBee. Taking your daughter out for cocktails is a season of parenting I’m very much enjoying.

Not pictured: a family funeral and the chest infection I’m still getting over 🤒 How was April for you?
Easter weekend in my hometown 💃🏼

No trip to London is long enough for me to see all the people and do all the things I want to do while I’m there, but we always manage to pack a lot in. It’s 17 years since I moved away, but somehow it still feels like coming home. Here’s some of what we got up to…

1. Being tourists.

2. Shopping at Westfield.

3 + 4. Hanging out and eating at Southbank.

5. Refuelling in Chinatown.

6. Enjoying the big Waterstones in Piccadilly.

7. Admiring the spring flowers outside Liberty.

8. Visiting the Imperial War Museum for the first time since I was a child.

9 + 10. Seeing Elton John at the O2 with my mama 👓🎹🎤🪩✨

I hope you’ve managed to enjoy the long weekend, whatever you’ve been up to! That sunshine though!☀️🤩
March in Photos 🤳

1. How it’s going…

2. How it started.

3. My in-laws were involved in a terrible car crash earlier this month. They’re very, very lucky to be alive. It was a horrible time, so I’m grateful there was a happy ending.

4. My husband sent me this photo of a photo from our wedding day while he was visiting his parents. Turns out his mum carries it in her purse ❤️

5. While I was waiting for news from Derby, I took myself out on a walk and ended up in @thesmallcitybookshop. It was like my feet knew books would bring me comfort.

6 + 7. Just spring things.

8. Vegan lemon and almond loaf and a green smoothie from @theorchardcoffeeco 🍰🌱

9. I bought it 🌸

10. Other music? I don’t know her. 

How’s March been treating you? Personally, I’m ready for April and spring PROPER!
There is a past version of me who cannot believe I get to do this every day 💭📝💻

She’s around 12yrs old, working on her first novel in a little ring-bound notebook, dreaming up stories, devouring books and trying to imagine a life filled with words. Everything that makes my business possible now barely existed then, so even she’d struggle to conjure up  an image of what my life looks like now.

I’m grateful that I get to do this, for the clients who trust me to find the right words, and I’m grateful to that past version of me too. Without her, I wouldn’t be here now. Sure, she’d probably want me to hurry up and get back to that novel, but I think she’d be proud of the business I’ve built and the way I’ve managed to create a life filled with words.

What did you want to be when you grew up?
Lockdown memories, three years on 🦠⏳

Very little of my life made it on to the grid in 2020, so this is the first time I’ve shared these images. They’re all from the first lockdown and most were taken between March and May. I think the arrival of spring will always remind me of this strange time.

When Boris made his announcement on the 23rd, our children had already been out of school for a week. Jesse, who was initially deemed clinically vulnerable, spent the next 6m shielding. He left primary school one day not realising he’d never go back. He did not see another child his age until the summer. Like many kids and adults in the same situation, the experience had a deep impact on his mental health. 

Izzy was in Year 10. As the pandemic raged on, she did most of her GCSEs online, celebrated her 16th birthday via Netflix Party, finished secondary school with minimal fanfare and missed out on prom completely. When she finally had a normal night out with friends in the winter of 2021, I cried quietly in the kitchen when she got home. Seeing her so happy and animated after a simple ‘cheeky Nando’s’ only highlighted everything she’d missed out on in the previous 18 months.

It’s easy to forget how little we knew about the virus in the beginning and how frightening that was for everyone involved. We had it easy in comparison to some, but I still marvel at the way we coped with it all. The way we isolated, home schooled and kept our businesses ticking over. My goodness it was hard! As my children often joke, I hope we’re done living through major historical events for a while.