The summer holidays are upon us. I survived day one, and as I write I’m halfway through day two. So far, spirits are high. The sun is shining, the children are delightful and I’m enjoying the relaxation of our usual routine.

I love this time of year, but it can be a juggle. In an attempt to slow down and keep things simple for the next six weeks, I’ve stripped back my workload as much as possible. There are still deadlines to meet and clients to tend to, but I’m trying to keep stress and overwhelm to a minimum.

I want to savour these long, hot days. They’re filled with a special kind of magic – a mix of sunshine, adventure, and a hint of nostalgia for brilliant summers been and gone.

‘All in all, it was a never to be forgotten summer — one of those summers which come seldom into any life, but leave a rich heritage of beautiful memories in their going — one of those summers which, in a fortunate combination of delightful weather, delightful friends and delightful doing, come as near to perfection as anything can come in this world.’ – L.M. Montgomery, Anne’s House of Dreams

As I’ve said before, our summer bucket list doesn’t always make it on to the blog, but it’s been an annual ritual since the children were little. You can read last year’s here and a list from 2012 here.

In 2019, our summer bucket list looks like this…

  • Swim in the Open Air

Wild swimming has appeared on my summer bucket list for as long as I can remember, but it’s something we never quite manage to tick off. The children usually make it into the sea, and I’ll dip my toes in a river or lake, but I’ve never been fully submerged.

This year, I’m expanding my goal a little. Maybe we’ll head to Bristol Lido or the colourful open-air pool in Portishead. Either way, I’m determined to swim outside beneath clear blue skies.

  • Explore Dorset by Car

We’re no strangers to a Dorset staycation, but this year our annual summer trip will be markedly different. Having purchased our very own car last October, this will be the first time we’re able to explore the countryside by road, under our own steam.

I can’t wait to venture further afield, discover new-to-me beaches, and generally fall in love with my favourite part of the UK all over again.

  •  Go Fishing

When I quizzed him about what he’d like to do this summer, Jesse’s only request was to catch a fish. We’ve previously dabbled in crabbing, dragging buckets and bait to West Bay. Rock pooling at low tide has provided hours of entertainment and fun. But we’ve never taken the children fishing with a rod and reel.

While we’re in Dorset, I’m booking a boat trip for Carl and the kids. I plan to stay on dry land, book in hand as I eagerly await news of their catch.

  • Master the Art of Vegan Barbecue

In 2018, we really found our feet in terms of cooking and dinning al fresco. We regularly fired up the BBQ, creating some truly delicious meals.

This summer, I plan to expand my repertoire beyond veggie kebabs and corn-on-the-cob. Charred – The Complete Guide to Vegetarian Grilling and Barbecue* has become my bible and I’m excited to sample the fruits of my labour.

  • Slow Down {and Write a Short Story}

I’m not trying to do-it-all this year. I’ve willingly taken my foot off the pedal at work and I’m ready to switch off completely when we go away at the end of August. I want our summer to feel slow and intentional. I want to make space for the things I love.

I always feel more creative in the summer months and Dorset never fails to spark my imagination. One day, I’d like to pen a novel set along the Jurassic Coast. A complex, inter-generational family saga. For now, I’m aiming to write a single short story before summer is done. I don’t know whether I’ll share it anywhere, but I’m determined to get the words out of my head and down on paper.

  • What’s on your bucket list? If you’re after more ideas, Joy the Baker is a pro and ABM have a cute printable you can use to record your own.

Love Audrey xxx

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Our Summer Bucket List 2019
May in photos 🤳

1. Finally, some Franky weather. One of the best things about this month has been dusting off my summer dresses and being able to wear sandals ☀️

2+3. Coronation weekend. So many thoughts 💭 But the food was good! I made a vegan version of my mum’s famous coronation chicken and it was delicious.

4. Jesse staying upbeat during yet another trip to hospital. That steroid buzz though. IYKYK.

5. Some of the food served at the first meeting of Bristol Cook Book Club since 2020. It felt so good to get this going again. I can’t wait for our next feast!

6. Me among the cow parsley, snapped by Jesse.

7. I’ve been thinking about creativity a lot this month while working through the ‘The Artist’s Way’. 

8. Breakfast outside.

9. {Still} scrapbooking December. Fingers crossed I can finally wrap up this project in June 🤞🏻

10. Izzy’s final show at The Tobacco Factory. After tonight, she’ll be done with college {and compulsory education} forever 🤯

We packed a lot into this month. Enough to fill two carousels! This might explain why I’m so tired! I’m looking forward to June though. Everything’s better when the sun shines ✨
@_charlieswift has been raving about ‘The Artist’s Way’ by Julia Cameron for years. I finally caved, ordered the book and agreed to work through the course with her and some other artists. 

The book focuses on ‘guiding you through the process of recovering your creative self’ to ‘help you unleash your inner artist’. It’s early days {I’ve only read as far as week two and I haven’t even started my morning pages yet - IYKYK}, but I’m enjoying the process so far. 

Today I took myself on my first Artist Date - ‘a block of time… especially set aside and committed to nurturing your creative consciousness, your inner artist’. I decided to treat myself to a solo cinema trip to see ‘Are You There God? It’s Me, Margaret.’ The film was brilliant and taking time out midweek to do something just for me felt… kind of naughty? And fun! It definitely filled my creative well {again, IYKYK}.

Have you read ‘The Artist’s Way?’ Where would you go on a date with your inner artist?!
Franky weather ☀️🌅🔆🌻✨

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April in photos 🤳

1. Our trip to London over Easter was a definite highlight this month. Here’s the obligatory ‘flowers outside Liberty’ shot.

2. Finally! Some sunshine! More of the same please, Mr. Weatherman ☀️

3. Dressed for a day of sightseeing in my new favourite pink jacket. It’s Boden and I bought it in the sale 💖

4 + 5. Scenes from a trip to the big Waterstones in Piccadilly. This poem by @charlycox1 floored me. Crying in a bookshop. Not awkward at all.

6. I was proud of these steps, so I’m posting them here for posterity 🚶🏼‍♀️🥄

7. The Easter holidays also featured lots of lazy days 🎮😴

8. We bought a nutribullet and I’m officially in my smoothie era.

9 + 10. Dinner and drinks at @thecoconuttreeuk with our IzzyBee. Taking your daughter out for cocktails is a season of parenting I’m very much enjoying.

Not pictured: a family funeral and the chest infection I’m still getting over 🤒 How was April for you?
Easter weekend in my hometown 💃🏼

No trip to London is long enough for me to see all the people and do all the things I want to do while I’m there, but we always manage to pack a lot in. It’s 17 years since I moved away, but somehow it still feels like coming home. Here’s some of what we got up to…

1. Being tourists.

2. Shopping at Westfield.

3 + 4. Hanging out and eating at Southbank.

5. Refuelling in Chinatown.

6. Enjoying the big Waterstones in Piccadilly.

7. Admiring the spring flowers outside Liberty.

8. Visiting the Imperial War Museum for the first time since I was a child.

9 + 10. Seeing Elton John at the O2 with my mama 👓🎹🎤🪩✨

I hope you’ve managed to enjoy the long weekend, whatever you’ve been up to! That sunshine though!☀️🤩
March in Photos 🤳

1. How it’s going…

2. How it started.

3. My in-laws were involved in a terrible car crash earlier this month. They’re very, very lucky to be alive. It was a horrible time, so I’m grateful there was a happy ending.

4. My husband sent me this photo of a photo from our wedding day while he was visiting his parents. Turns out his mum carries it in her purse ❤️

5. While I was waiting for news from Derby, I took myself out on a walk and ended up in @thesmallcitybookshop. It was like my feet knew books would bring me comfort.

6 + 7. Just spring things.

8. Vegan lemon and almond loaf and a green smoothie from @theorchardcoffeeco 🍰🌱

9. I bought it 🌸

10. Other music? I don’t know her. 

How’s March been treating you? Personally, I’m ready for April and spring PROPER!
There is a past version of me who cannot believe I get to do this every day 💭📝💻

She’s around 12yrs old, working on her first novel in a little ring-bound notebook, dreaming up stories, devouring books and trying to imagine a life filled with words. Everything that makes my business possible now barely existed then, so even she’d struggle to conjure up  an image of what my life looks like now.

I’m grateful that I get to do this, for the clients who trust me to find the right words, and I’m grateful to that past version of me too. Without her, I wouldn’t be here now. Sure, she’d probably want me to hurry up and get back to that novel, but I think she’d be proud of the business I’ve built and the way I’ve managed to create a life filled with words.

What did you want to be when you grew up?
Lockdown memories, three years on 🦠⏳

Very little of my life made it on to the grid in 2020, so this is the first time I’ve shared these images. They’re all from the first lockdown and most were taken between March and May. I think the arrival of spring will always remind me of this strange time.

When Boris made his announcement on the 23rd, our children had already been out of school for a week. Jesse, who was initially deemed clinically vulnerable, spent the next 6m shielding. He left primary school one day not realising he’d never go back. He did not see another child his age until the summer. Like many kids and adults in the same situation, the experience had a deep impact on his mental health. 

Izzy was in Year 10. As the pandemic raged on, she did most of her GCSEs online, celebrated her 16th birthday via Netflix Party, finished secondary school with minimal fanfare and missed out on prom completely. When she finally had a normal night out with friends in the winter of 2021, I cried quietly in the kitchen when she got home. Seeing her so happy and animated after a simple ‘cheeky Nando’s’ only highlighted everything she’d missed out on in the previous 18 months.

It’s easy to forget how little we knew about the virus in the beginning and how frightening that was for everyone involved. We had it easy in comparison to some, but I still marvel at the way we coped with it all. The way we isolated, home schooled and kept our businesses ticking over. My goodness it was hard! As my children often joke, I hope we’re done living through major historical events for a while.