The first quarter of 2022 was bookended by trips to A&E and filled with multiple periods of ill health. I started the year with a ruptured ovarian cyst, my CFS flared a lot and I managed to hurt my back badly at some point in the middle of March. Then Jesse caught a cold that led to an asthma attack and an overnight stay at Bristol Children’s Hospital. Due to staff shortages, his school was also closed for a week. This all happened against a global backdrop of conflict and upheaval. I don’t know about you, but I’ve been feeling pretty fragile.

Somehow, against the odds, work continues apace. Here’s Q1 2022 in review…

  • What Felt Good in Q1?

In January, I launched and sold my first ‘bundle’ of services. Priced at £300, The Confident Blogger Bundle included a recording of a workshop I delivered last year, a 1:1 blog content planning session and written feedback on two pieces of writing. Due to my ill health, the launch itself was stressful and chaotic, but I was pleased with the results. I’ve also had some great feedback from the people who purchased. I would love to experiment more with this type of offering and continue developing the coaching/education side of my business.

I completed two big web copy projects in Q1 and wrote 22 pieces of blog and email content for clients. My workload was intense at times, but I’m proud of the copy I delivered. Hannah Baskett’s website is still under construction, but I loved the way she repurposed some of her new copy in this Instagram caption.

Two projects I worked on last year also went live this quarter. This is the second time I’ve collaborated with Merrie & Bright and it’s been amazing to witness the brand’s evolution over the last few years. It’s also been almost 10 years since I first met Charlotte of Wilden London. I love working with start-ups, but there’s something very special about supporting established business owners as they embrace a new chapter or change direction.

Finally, working on my own content felt particularly good this quarter. As well as blogging here, sending my monthly Letter From Love Audrey and creating a couple of reels on Instagram, Charlie and I finally relaunched Friends With Business Benefits. Creating a podcast is a lot of work, but it’s also a lot of fun and we’ve shared some great episodes so far this year. I also did an Instagram Live with Social Pip reflecting on our big wins {and epic fails} from 10 years in business and appeared on the Simple Scrapper podcast chatting about my new hobby.

  • What Didn’t?

Answering the question above has helped me realise I’ve achieved a lot since the start of the year, but it didn’t feel that way when I was in the thick of it. Whenever my health is bad, I spend a lot of time comparing myself to others and wishing I could do more. I need to work on showing myself more compassion when I’m forced to slow down.

My boundaries were tested in quarter one. As a result of standing firm, I had to ride out some serious discomfort. Ultimately, I know I made the right call, but as I wrote in a recent letter to my mailing list, I’m a permanently exhausted human who feels things very deeply.

Over the last few months, I’ve also spent a lot of time feeling very overwhelmed. Beyond feeling unwell and managing a busy workload, I’ve struggled with the ‘return to normal’ that feels anything but. I still feel very anxious about catching Covid and generally out of practice when it comes to leaving the house and socialising with others. Is it just me, or is life post-lockdown more exhausting than ever before?

  • What Did I Learn?

I didn’t learn anything new this quarter, but I was reminded of some important lessons from the past. Rest is productive. Taking care of yourself gives you more energy for your art. The only people who take issue with healthy boundaries are the ones you need to have boundaries with the most.

  • My Goals & Intentions in Q2

The most exciting thing to happen so far this year is the reopening of Australia’s borders. If you read my blog post back in January, you’ll know visiting my little sister, her husband and their new baby was top of my wish list for the year ahead. Well, my wish has been granted! I’ll be spending just under 6 weeks in Sydney later this year.

By taking most of the summer off, I’ll also be realising a long-held business dream of mine. I’m still finalising the details, but a big part of my plan involves working a few months in advance for my retainer clients. I also want to get ahead with my own content so I can keep showing up here while I’m away. In other words, I’ve got a lot of writing to do in Q2!

Other goals include giving my website a bit of an overhaul and running another online workshop. I’m feeling a little overwhelmed by everything I need/want to do, so my first step should probably be figuring out what’s achievable! I’ll let you know how I get on.

  • Love Audrey

P.S. This post was inspired by Katie Morwenna. You can read her Q1 review here. Charlie and I also shared a conversation about Q1 on the podcast.

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Q1 2022 in Review
May in photos 🤳

1. Finally, some Franky weather. One of the best things about this month has been dusting off my summer dresses and being able to wear sandals ☀️

2+3. Coronation weekend. So many thoughts 💭 But the food was good! I made a vegan version of my mum’s famous coronation chicken and it was delicious.

4. Jesse staying upbeat during yet another trip to hospital. That steroid buzz though. IYKYK.

5. Some of the food served at the first meeting of Bristol Cook Book Club since 2020. It felt so good to get this going again. I can’t wait for our next feast!

6. Me among the cow parsley, snapped by Jesse.

7. I’ve been thinking about creativity a lot this month while working through the ‘The Artist’s Way’. 

8. Breakfast outside.

9. {Still} scrapbooking December. Fingers crossed I can finally wrap up this project in June 🤞🏻

10. Izzy’s final show at The Tobacco Factory. After tonight, she’ll be done with college {and compulsory education} forever 🤯

We packed a lot into this month. Enough to fill two carousels! This might explain why I’m so tired! I’m looking forward to June though. Everything’s better when the sun shines ✨
@_charlieswift has been raving about ‘The Artist’s Way’ by Julia Cameron for years. I finally caved, ordered the book and agreed to work through the course with her and some other artists. 

The book focuses on ‘guiding you through the process of recovering your creative self’ to ‘help you unleash your inner artist’. It’s early days {I’ve only read as far as week two and I haven’t even started my morning pages yet - IYKYK}, but I’m enjoying the process so far. 

Today I took myself on my first Artist Date - ‘a block of time… especially set aside and committed to nurturing your creative consciousness, your inner artist’. I decided to treat myself to a solo cinema trip to see ‘Are You There God? It’s Me, Margaret.’ The film was brilliant and taking time out midweek to do something just for me felt… kind of naughty? And fun! It definitely filled my creative well {again, IYKYK}.

Have you read ‘The Artist’s Way?’ Where would you go on a date with your inner artist?!
Franky weather ☀️🌅🔆🌻✨

That’s it, that’s the caption.
April in photos 🤳

1. Our trip to London over Easter was a definite highlight this month. Here’s the obligatory ‘flowers outside Liberty’ shot.

2. Finally! Some sunshine! More of the same please, Mr. Weatherman ☀️

3. Dressed for a day of sightseeing in my new favourite pink jacket. It’s Boden and I bought it in the sale 💖

4 + 5. Scenes from a trip to the big Waterstones in Piccadilly. This poem by @charlycox1 floored me. Crying in a bookshop. Not awkward at all.

6. I was proud of these steps, so I’m posting them here for posterity 🚶🏼‍♀️🥄

7. The Easter holidays also featured lots of lazy days 🎮😴

8. We bought a nutribullet and I’m officially in my smoothie era.

9 + 10. Dinner and drinks at @thecoconuttreeuk with our IzzyBee. Taking your daughter out for cocktails is a season of parenting I’m very much enjoying.

Not pictured: a family funeral and the chest infection I’m still getting over 🤒 How was April for you?
Easter weekend in my hometown 💃🏼

No trip to London is long enough for me to see all the people and do all the things I want to do while I’m there, but we always manage to pack a lot in. It’s 17 years since I moved away, but somehow it still feels like coming home. Here’s some of what we got up to…

1. Being tourists.

2. Shopping at Westfield.

3 + 4. Hanging out and eating at Southbank.

5. Refuelling in Chinatown.

6. Enjoying the big Waterstones in Piccadilly.

7. Admiring the spring flowers outside Liberty.

8. Visiting the Imperial War Museum for the first time since I was a child.

9 + 10. Seeing Elton John at the O2 with my mama 👓🎹🎤🪩✨

I hope you’ve managed to enjoy the long weekend, whatever you’ve been up to! That sunshine though!☀️🤩
March in Photos 🤳

1. How it’s going…

2. How it started.

3. My in-laws were involved in a terrible car crash earlier this month. They’re very, very lucky to be alive. It was a horrible time, so I’m grateful there was a happy ending.

4. My husband sent me this photo of a photo from our wedding day while he was visiting his parents. Turns out his mum carries it in her purse ❤️

5. While I was waiting for news from Derby, I took myself out on a walk and ended up in @thesmallcitybookshop. It was like my feet knew books would bring me comfort.

6 + 7. Just spring things.

8. Vegan lemon and almond loaf and a green smoothie from @theorchardcoffeeco 🍰🌱

9. I bought it 🌸

10. Other music? I don’t know her. 

How’s March been treating you? Personally, I’m ready for April and spring PROPER!
There is a past version of me who cannot believe I get to do this every day 💭📝💻

She’s around 12yrs old, working on her first novel in a little ring-bound notebook, dreaming up stories, devouring books and trying to imagine a life filled with words. Everything that makes my business possible now barely existed then, so even she’d struggle to conjure up  an image of what my life looks like now.

I’m grateful that I get to do this, for the clients who trust me to find the right words, and I’m grateful to that past version of me too. Without her, I wouldn’t be here now. Sure, she’d probably want me to hurry up and get back to that novel, but I think she’d be proud of the business I’ve built and the way I’ve managed to create a life filled with words.

What did you want to be when you grew up?
Lockdown memories, three years on 🦠⏳

Very little of my life made it on to the grid in 2020, so this is the first time I’ve shared these images. They’re all from the first lockdown and most were taken between March and May. I think the arrival of spring will always remind me of this strange time.

When Boris made his announcement on the 23rd, our children had already been out of school for a week. Jesse, who was initially deemed clinically vulnerable, spent the next 6m shielding. He left primary school one day not realising he’d never go back. He did not see another child his age until the summer. Like many kids and adults in the same situation, the experience had a deep impact on his mental health. 

Izzy was in Year 10. As the pandemic raged on, she did most of her GCSEs online, celebrated her 16th birthday via Netflix Party, finished secondary school with minimal fanfare and missed out on prom completely. When she finally had a normal night out with friends in the winter of 2021, I cried quietly in the kitchen when she got home. Seeing her so happy and animated after a simple ‘cheeky Nando’s’ only highlighted everything she’d missed out on in the previous 18 months.

It’s easy to forget how little we knew about the virus in the beginning and how frightening that was for everyone involved. We had it easy in comparison to some, but I still marvel at the way we coped with it all. The way we isolated, home schooled and kept our businesses ticking over. My goodness it was hard! As my children often joke, I hope we’re done living through major historical events for a while.