I doubt anybody noticed, but Q3 in Review never made it on to the blog. A few days into October, when I should have been working on the first draft, I finally succumbed to Covid. I’d had a good run, managing to avoid the virus for two years, even when the rest of my household had it… twice! As if making up for lost time, the germs hit hard. I spent two full weeks in bed unable to do much more than sleep, and then another two weeks slowly regaining my strength.

While I was ill, Carl had to spend 10 days in America, leaving the kids to fend for themselves and look after me while I remained in isolation. Once Carl was home, and just as I was starting to feel better, Jesse came down with a virus that turned into a chest infection, causing a nasty asthma flare. We ended up in A&E twice and I lost count of our emergency appointments with the GP. In the end, he was off school for two and a half weeks. It was a rough time for all involved, but especially Jesse. Determined to end the quarter strong, he tested positive for Covid at the beginning of December and needed another week off.

Now we’ve got our various health woes out the way, here’s Q4 2022 in review…

  • What Felt Good in Q4?

Honestly, not much. The last three months have been tough. When I wasn’t desperately trying to catch up on work, I was fighting fires elsewhere. But there have been moments worth celebrating.

In October, Charlie and I appeared on Liz Mosley’s excellent podcast, Building Your Brand, to talk about co-mentoring. After all these years, we’re still incredibly passionate about this approach and eager to share our experience with other business owners. At the beginning of November, I delivered a bonus workshop for Maddy Shine’s online training program, Blogging For Gold. I love working with Maddy. Her energy and the way she does business is very inspiring. It’s always fun to meet new members of her community too.

Somehow, despite being unwell, I wrote 25 pieces of content and completed one big web copy project in Q4. The latter is already live and looking beautiful. I first worked with Matt and Lara at Launcells Barton many years ago. At the time, they were new to the wedding industry and their stunning venue in Cornwall was still under construction. I was honoured when they asked me to work with them again and create copy for the next exciting chapter of their business. After all the challenges of the last few months, receiving this testimonial upon completion provided a much needed boost.

‘When we decided it was time to rebrand and create our new website, without question I knew Franky needed to be involved again. When we launched our business and first website, Franky got “us” completely and really understood exactly how we wanted our website to feel.

 

Working with Franky is a pleasure, everything is communicated and structured in a professional way, so you know when to expect things and if any tweaks need to be made, when these will be completed. I always felt like I could be completely open and honest and if any changes needed to be made, Franky was understanding and positive and nothing ever felt like too much trouble. She just wanted to make sure we were happy and everything was exactly how we wanted it to be. Thank you for bringing our rebranding to life and continuing to be our voice!’

 

– Lara, Launcells Barton

  • What Didn’t?

Shall we just say ‘life in general’ and leave it at that?! The clocks going back. Prepping for Christmas. Running a business in the current economic climate. Meeting deadlines. Remembering to email my accountant the stuff she needed for my tax return. Helping Izzy with her UCAS form and starting to plan her 18th birthday party. Even without everything else, these things would be overwhelming.

I also struggled with the constant feeling I was letting people down or keeping them waiting. My clients were so patient while I was sick, but it pained me to be providing what felt like a sub-par service. Now the dust has settled, I can see I was being pretty hard on myself {for a change}. I did my best during a really difficult period. I communicated clearly with my clients throughout and produced high quality work. I should have been patting myself on the back, not beating myself up.

  • What Did I Learn?

Navigating multiple high stress situations back-to-back has definitely reaffirmed my desire to prioritise peace! As much as possible, I want my working life to feel spacious and calm. The past three months have also been a good lesson in dealing with overwhelm. The best approach is usually one thought, one task, one day at time. It always feels impossible until it’s done.

  • I usually end these reviews with my goals and intentions for the next quarter. As we’re heading into a new year, I think I’ll save this for my first post of 2023. I’m looking forward to embracing goal setting season after a restful Christmas. I’ll see you on the other side!

Love Audrey xxx

P.S. Q2 2022 in Review and Q1 2022 in Review

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Q4 2022 in Review
May in photos 🤳

1. Finally, some Franky weather. One of the best things about this month has been dusting off my summer dresses and being able to wear sandals ☀️

2+3. Coronation weekend. So many thoughts 💭 But the food was good! I made a vegan version of my mum’s famous coronation chicken and it was delicious.

4. Jesse staying upbeat during yet another trip to hospital. That steroid buzz though. IYKYK.

5. Some of the food served at the first meeting of Bristol Cook Book Club since 2020. It felt so good to get this going again. I can’t wait for our next feast!

6. Me among the cow parsley, snapped by Jesse.

7. I’ve been thinking about creativity a lot this month while working through the ‘The Artist’s Way’. 

8. Breakfast outside.

9. {Still} scrapbooking December. Fingers crossed I can finally wrap up this project in June 🤞🏻

10. Izzy’s final show at The Tobacco Factory. After tonight, she’ll be done with college {and compulsory education} forever 🤯

We packed a lot into this month. Enough to fill two carousels! This might explain why I’m so tired! I’m looking forward to June though. Everything’s better when the sun shines ✨
@_charlieswift has been raving about ‘The Artist’s Way’ by Julia Cameron for years. I finally caved, ordered the book and agreed to work through the course with her and some other artists. 

The book focuses on ‘guiding you through the process of recovering your creative self’ to ‘help you unleash your inner artist’. It’s early days {I’ve only read as far as week two and I haven’t even started my morning pages yet - IYKYK}, but I’m enjoying the process so far. 

Today I took myself on my first Artist Date - ‘a block of time… especially set aside and committed to nurturing your creative consciousness, your inner artist’. I decided to treat myself to a solo cinema trip to see ‘Are You There God? It’s Me, Margaret.’ The film was brilliant and taking time out midweek to do something just for me felt… kind of naughty? And fun! It definitely filled my creative well {again, IYKYK}.

Have you read ‘The Artist’s Way?’ Where would you go on a date with your inner artist?!
Franky weather ☀️🌅🔆🌻✨

That’s it, that’s the caption.
April in photos 🤳

1. Our trip to London over Easter was a definite highlight this month. Here’s the obligatory ‘flowers outside Liberty’ shot.

2. Finally! Some sunshine! More of the same please, Mr. Weatherman ☀️

3. Dressed for a day of sightseeing in my new favourite pink jacket. It’s Boden and I bought it in the sale 💖

4 + 5. Scenes from a trip to the big Waterstones in Piccadilly. This poem by @charlycox1 floored me. Crying in a bookshop. Not awkward at all.

6. I was proud of these steps, so I’m posting them here for posterity 🚶🏼‍♀️🥄

7. The Easter holidays also featured lots of lazy days 🎮😴

8. We bought a nutribullet and I’m officially in my smoothie era.

9 + 10. Dinner and drinks at @thecoconuttreeuk with our IzzyBee. Taking your daughter out for cocktails is a season of parenting I’m very much enjoying.

Not pictured: a family funeral and the chest infection I’m still getting over 🤒 How was April for you?
Easter weekend in my hometown 💃🏼

No trip to London is long enough for me to see all the people and do all the things I want to do while I’m there, but we always manage to pack a lot in. It’s 17 years since I moved away, but somehow it still feels like coming home. Here’s some of what we got up to…

1. Being tourists.

2. Shopping at Westfield.

3 + 4. Hanging out and eating at Southbank.

5. Refuelling in Chinatown.

6. Enjoying the big Waterstones in Piccadilly.

7. Admiring the spring flowers outside Liberty.

8. Visiting the Imperial War Museum for the first time since I was a child.

9 + 10. Seeing Elton John at the O2 with my mama 👓🎹🎤🪩✨

I hope you’ve managed to enjoy the long weekend, whatever you’ve been up to! That sunshine though!☀️🤩
March in Photos 🤳

1. How it’s going…

2. How it started.

3. My in-laws were involved in a terrible car crash earlier this month. They’re very, very lucky to be alive. It was a horrible time, so I’m grateful there was a happy ending.

4. My husband sent me this photo of a photo from our wedding day while he was visiting his parents. Turns out his mum carries it in her purse ❤️

5. While I was waiting for news from Derby, I took myself out on a walk and ended up in @thesmallcitybookshop. It was like my feet knew books would bring me comfort.

6 + 7. Just spring things.

8. Vegan lemon and almond loaf and a green smoothie from @theorchardcoffeeco 🍰🌱

9. I bought it 🌸

10. Other music? I don’t know her. 

How’s March been treating you? Personally, I’m ready for April and spring PROPER!
There is a past version of me who cannot believe I get to do this every day 💭📝💻

She’s around 12yrs old, working on her first novel in a little ring-bound notebook, dreaming up stories, devouring books and trying to imagine a life filled with words. Everything that makes my business possible now barely existed then, so even she’d struggle to conjure up  an image of what my life looks like now.

I’m grateful that I get to do this, for the clients who trust me to find the right words, and I’m grateful to that past version of me too. Without her, I wouldn’t be here now. Sure, she’d probably want me to hurry up and get back to that novel, but I think she’d be proud of the business I’ve built and the way I’ve managed to create a life filled with words.

What did you want to be when you grew up?
Lockdown memories, three years on 🦠⏳

Very little of my life made it on to the grid in 2020, so this is the first time I’ve shared these images. They’re all from the first lockdown and most were taken between March and May. I think the arrival of spring will always remind me of this strange time.

When Boris made his announcement on the 23rd, our children had already been out of school for a week. Jesse, who was initially deemed clinically vulnerable, spent the next 6m shielding. He left primary school one day not realising he’d never go back. He did not see another child his age until the summer. Like many kids and adults in the same situation, the experience had a deep impact on his mental health. 

Izzy was in Year 10. As the pandemic raged on, she did most of her GCSEs online, celebrated her 16th birthday via Netflix Party, finished secondary school with minimal fanfare and missed out on prom completely. When she finally had a normal night out with friends in the winter of 2021, I cried quietly in the kitchen when she got home. Seeing her so happy and animated after a simple ‘cheeky Nando’s’ only highlighted everything she’d missed out on in the previous 18 months.

It’s easy to forget how little we knew about the virus in the beginning and how frightening that was for everyone involved. We had it easy in comparison to some, but I still marvel at the way we coped with it all. The way we isolated, home schooled and kept our businesses ticking over. My goodness it was hard! As my children often joke, I hope we’re done living through major historical events for a while.